My Selfish Machine: Bercinta selepas kahwin itu indah

Assalamualaikum

Selamat pagi .. *pagi lagi kah , 12.30 tghhari* hihihi

Okayyy , seriously I'm touched bila baca blog Dena Bahrin just now *http://denakamarulbahrin.blogspot.com/2012/05/1-my-love-story.html* .. At the age of 20 , she got married.. Maybe most of the people know regarding her love story.. Sebab dalam Youtube pon dia pernah post that she had been purposed ..

After reading the post on her blog , I feel like thousand of needles impale into my heart .. arr why ? Her love story is very beautiful .. MasyaAllah , and just for recalling , I have been tried to put myself in that situation and finally I got the answer and only I can tell that * arr pilihan keluarga bukan tak okayy , okayy but how can I accept an unexpected + unknown boy to be my future husband like Dena did .. Oh God , it's really non-sense thing that I can never accept .. As we know Dena tu tak penah kenal pun husband dia , but her husband really2 likes her .. Dena used to reject her husband before and what the amazing thing is her husband never give up then told Dena's parents to ask Dena's hands in marriage .. Wahhh this is the beautiful thing that I ever know .. Sesiapa je yang tahu tentang love story Dena ni , orang dah dapat expect that her husband ni berani , ikhlas, jujur berhadapan dengan parents Dena .. kenapa ? Ya lahh , dah suka Dena terus minta masuk meminang lepas tu kawin .. Her family seems easily approve that purposed kan , mungkin husband dia tu dah kerja okayy dah boleh nak tanggung Dena and apa yang sepatutnya dilengkapkan before kawin yeah semua nya dah cukup .. Thats why jalan cerita hidup mereka senang jee kan :) Alhamdulillah lah :) Allah dah tetapkan jalan cerita hidup masing2 kan ..

Before this aku pun pernah bermimpi kena kawin paksa .. wakaka .. yes , atas permintaan umi & abah .. but lets guess what I have done ? Aku lari rumah , tak nak kawin dengan budak tuuu .. It's such nightmare and yeahh for that night I got nightmare.. Aku pun tak pernah terfikir nak kawin dengan orang yang tak pernah aku kenal , tiba-tiba je jadi isteri dia .. Oh maiiii .. Tak mauuu ... But orang kata kahwin atas pilihan keluarga itu lebih berkat.. hmmm but I have my own choice mum :(

Tapi kan cerita hidup Dena ni buat aku termenung , terfikir banyak perkara .. Indah betul perjalan hidup dia kan .. Kalau nak dibandingkan dengan cerita hidup aku , amat berbatu-batu lah bezanya .. She looks perfect ! Tapi kan seorang perempuan yang cantik tak akan pernah membezakan dirinya dengan orang lain hanya sekadar bersyukur apa yang diberi ..Ingat tu .. Alhamdullilah :) Mungkin jalan cerita hidup Dena telah ditetapkan dia hanya berjumpa dengan seorang lelaki je and he is her husband .. Kalau nak dibandingkan dengan orang lain , sebelum jumpa yang benar , Allah ketemukan yang salah dulu , why ?? sebab Allah nak kita mensyukuri nikmat kasih sayang yang diberi .. Memang semua orang yang bercinta nak berkekalan hingga keakhir hayat especially orang perempuan , tapi apakan daya kita hanya merancang , Allah yang tentukan .. Dia tidak memakbulkan Doa kita does not mean Dia tidak sayang pada kita but He has the best plan compared we do right ? Kita tak tahu sedangkan Dia tahu .. Allah lebih mengetahui ..

Setiap orang Allah sudah tetapkan jodoh masing-masing .. Cuma kita hanya perlu berdoa semoga diberi jodoh yang soleh dan kita pun berusaha menjadi yang lebih baik ..

Dena's words ; "Today, I would say, I believe in Love after marriage. I know, not everyone can get it. But you know, if you love someone, protect the 'love' . Protect the sweetness. If I could ever convince people how amazing it is to actually 'bercinta bagai nak rak.'' after married. it would be nice. I swear to Allah, Girls, protect your dignity,your heart and guys, please protect the girl you love. Please save your love story. Choose someone to marry, not someone for you to only walk around and be happy "